Monday, February 09, 2009

Stop living mine...

i never post one after the other..esp cos ppl take time to come to my blog and COMMENT but this time i felt i need to write bout this thing as soon as possible b4 the burnin fades out in me... or mayb it will never...

my blog is very laid back ... u may not agree...or at least usually doesn't talk bout current affairs be it bout obama or about mumbai attacks wen every single blog in the sphere had a mandatory post ... and now its bout the pub attack in mangalore...no i din wanna write on it either but my comments on other blogs started growing bigger and bigger tht i realized i've so much to say on this and m so angry tht i need to give this some space in my blog..

i am not angry or pissed or even bothered about that ram sena or whatever.. in fact me being an atheist i don give a damn if its ram's sena or Jesus sena or Allah's sena or whose ever ass' sena that are harassing gals in the name of CULTURE! so this is not about me opposing a particular culture or anything as many who i know would read this wud claim jus cos i don believe in religion, i respect everyone's rite to religion... and wud like some respect for individuality and choice of what-i-consider-moral and my culture too.. so the 'u' i refer to in the entire post truly represents MCPs i wud like to shoot if u gimme a gun now and not any group or sect in particular since i am blissly ignorant of politics, this is only bout ppl around me and their attitude...

first of all, i believe culture has to evolve, else we ' ll all still be cave men.. history is meant to be in the meseum and enjoyed on trips...i am very proud of my country its culture etc etc but i live in 2009 and let me live in the present and what i decide to follow from my ancestors due to my love and respect and belief in it is my choice and not urs...u can choose urs, i don bother u ...

i mean who are some desperate i-cant-get-those-independent-gals-so-they-are-sour-grapes men to decide what is moral and what is not? i don quite understand the situation here... what exactly is the prob? that they don get nuff? or they jus cant handle it? and which indian culture allows guys to harrass gals in public... i heard arguments like if the gals are bold nuff to come in public n drink they have to face such things from guys...yea rite! its like the burglar says if u have a house i will loot it its my birth rite its ur mistake to have a house and a life in the first place..jus cos its a burglar';s world and they make the rules!

i really think female infanticides are better off! atleast they kno wat the gal is gonna face ... sheer injustice and unfairness so she can rather be dead and gone than living in a man's world.. i was blind to the fact for 25 hyrs..i thought the world is a better place and there is so much freedom of 'will' for everyone ... but then i was wrong and i was hell rong in thinkin m for men and considered feminists to be hypocrites and dumbos and jobless ppl .. today i declare with pride tht i am feminist and there is nothin rong in it to equate the MCP's in the world from takin over completely ..If ur supportin for ur religion m supportin for my gender...

i am angry .. but with the ppl around me who think woman are weaker sex and so will they b ... and have to be... we choose to be moral... we chose to be responsible... we chose to be the mother (physically impregnating a child doesn't make one a mother she does it by choice)we choose to be a better person than u morally... and that shud be appreciated and not be taken advantage of ... u cant get certain things by demand and force, respect and love are few of em... sorry but how wud u know that?

what exactly is culture? (in ur dick-tionary).. cos i was thinkin culture is acting more 'evolved' and sophisticated and not barbaric...

guess anyone whose watched even a single Tamil movie knows the cliched statements...there are many guys i ve come across since childhood, who wen losin an arguement goes to the last resort of using this 'i can walk naked in public, can u?' thats the most loser(est) statement i've heard in life.. i think the answer is simple.. we jus choose not to.. u can afford to miss a copper ring in the crowd, try throwin a gold ring and c if noone flicks it... we r precious and we've made ourselves so... yes i have b**bs that u lust on and don have a d*** to f*** u? (oh how i wish!)now how does that make u a better person? i think that only makes me a better person than u in every way and gives the rite and need to decide if u shud come to the pub or not cos ur the one causing trouble here for me!

uff! that done ... i wud like to say that m proud to be a women who has sense, who has a mind of her own to discriminate between whats good for me and my family, how i shud dress where and for whom i shud dress and whom i shud care for ... and most of all, what my values my culture and my morality lies in ... and if in a country that claims to have got freedom of expression and will and rite to choose ur religion and culture...i am ashamed to be a citizen of this country hypocritically callin itself mother India and namin all the places and rivers after women... get a life... we don need to be treated as god .. we jus wanna be human...jus let us live...

well i can keep on writing..but seriously if someone can keep dictating terms to women jus cos they are not one.. i jus wish i can die now and be born a guy .. if thts all it takes to enjoy everythin in the world and lose nothin in return while rulin others lives as to what hey shud do too! wow! and say 'hey lady ur my god, ur the mother, ur cultured, ur pure, u jus have to be my slave and follow my rules to earn this name all ur life... and who am i to judge u? well i ll stray cos am a man'' i really wonder what extra horn men have! but m sure its not in the head...

No i am not in for pub culture... no i am not against it either.. i am for freedom of choice...i drink .. i dont.. its not ur prob.. its my lifestyle.. if ur jealous n cant take it ...well wat can i say...get a life .. hey wait! is the health of the young generation ur real concern? have some concern on the poor guys too then! cos if its spoilin my health in a way its spoiling urs in a worse way! close down all the pubs and make it a dry country (damn did i jus say that!)

or jus add a board in front of pubs sayin 'dogs and women not allowed'

and soon add it in cineplex's, malls, probably the beach too? cos i've seen women dressed in western outfit and hangin out with no CULTURE in these places too! and finally u can achieve ur target of not lettin us into the living room, in fact nowhere beyond the kitchen, bedroom and occasionally the bathroom if u permit... by say 2020? hurray! we are all getting civilized and cultured and (de)volved!

ok this post ll be come too huge to read soon.. so cuttin here i jus have few links to give ya ... here's some petition against the whole thingie which i don belive will do any good but if u do pls go ahead and sign it .. its against moral policing so i am for it.. whoever it is against!

http://www.petitiononline.com/SMP12345/petition.html

what can make me even more angry? c i don interfere in ur beliefs and religion...
well i believe in love ...its my religion and its one day i get to celebrate for my religion.. u guys have so many festivals! ur religion mite want to secure the past but mine wants to secure the future.. with more love and real values so i think i shud really stand up for this... here's a funny blog for valentines day thingie.. ppl who are opposing spread of LOVE in this country... join it if u believe in the V-day or in expressin love on any day for that matter!

http://thepinkchaddicampaign.blogspot.com/

listen to me Mr.MCP, this u really need to know, if u think woman don deserve love its nto affectin just them, if the future generation shudnt be born for love and only for marriage and sex, they will be born as loveless zombies attackin random women outa sheer desperation.. jus like their ancestors.. jus to follow tradition and culture blindly :) now go home and show some love to ur wife b4 she decides to run away...

21 comments:

Nautankey said...

Had read ur previous post and was like "onnum purla ba" :).

Just lovvvvved this one. I don't wanna start off because if I do my comment will become longer than ur post. Only thing is I wish to is start a terrorist organization which can slay these despo asses who wanna be the moral police and control the choice of people[esp women].

Shades of Grey said...

These are merely teasers for the coming elections dear. These guys don't give a rat's ass what happens to Indian Culture. They wanted to do something that would get them max exposure and get people talking. This way, one day, when things do take a bad turn (like for example a call-centre girl gets raped - most likely by one of their own "cultured" goons), everyone will be like "we should have voted for _____ Sena - THEY would have set things right". Even BAD publicity is publicity.

As for Pink Chaddi, for which I got an invitation as well, funny as it is - I can't say I fancy their title too much. "The Consortium of Pub-going Women" would have sufficed. Why give them more mud to sling at us ille?

Jayashree said...

Don't want to take up too much comment space, but just want to say that I agree with everything that you've said.

Arvind said...

I completely agree with Nautankey and 'Shades of Grey'.. These A**holes have got my blood boiling.. Do all the shit in the world and put the blame on culture and religion.. Morons, Losers, pieces of s**t.. Culture it seems.. Its simple di.. These impotent pricks are simply jealous thats all.. But there's no point writing about it Swarna.. You'll just meet a bunch of people who agree with u.. 'Ahimsa' works only with intelligent people who have a conscience.. Thats all.. Something needs to be done about this.. And what adds fuel to the fire is that they have the temerity to call themselves Shri Ram Sena..

MultiMenon said...

I can so very well understand wots going through you..Its utterly disgraceful that such things happen and even more sick for the fact that the wrongdoers still roam scot-free,only in India I guess.. :(

This country has gone to dogs.. :(

Nikhil

The blogger formerly known as Sansmerci said...

nautankey

thanks .. i finally made sense :D

shades of grey

hmm ur rite jane but my anger as i said in the post is not on the incident or the people who did it .. as i said m blissfully unwaware of politics and i don care.. its the people around me their reactions .. to this incident etc that triggered this post!

The blogger formerly known as Sansmerci said...

and yea i was also wondering y its called the loose women club! actually wen i saw the title i was wondering if its for or against the topic! he he

arvind

chillax da... i kno how u feel :) and i dono if extremism is the solution cos mayb thts the whole purpose of it .. and they win... i think IGNORING is the best treatment ... nothin can irritate ur enemies more than forgiving them!

The blogger formerly known as Sansmerci said...

multi

yea i wish it's a dogs world..it sure will be better than a man's world!

SR said...

Well....how much ever we say it will never be enough! We can shout from our blogs, our rooftops and even send these goons pink chaddis....We should just trash em once all the Gandhigiri is over :)

The blogger formerly known as Sansmerci said...

sr

i kno there are so many blogs that cry out about this even men's blogs mayb cos ppl ve to b political rite in the blogosphere.. but in person ive seen many who actually think this way about women... i kno its kinda unbelievable for me too!

Renu said...

Loved the last line:), I am completely for gender equality and freedom of expression, but dont believe in these campaigns, rather practicing my beliefs in my life..in my family all the women are respected, men are caring, respectful and affectionate, and this is my reply to all.

oorjas said...

'well i believe in love ...its my religion and its one day i get to celebrate for my religion.. u guys have so many festivals! ur religion mite want to secure the past but mine wants to secure the future..'

absolutely right.. spot on.

Blindwreck said...

Ha... fumes eh? too bad for the bride-to-be! ;) jus kiddin...

yeah i came across this chaddi thingy some time back and i was like..huh what the hell??? i mean i even saw the retort that ram sena has prepared, seems they are going to send sarees.. haha!! ridiculous.. he says he wouldnt be around in the city but will make sure his men are around to spot couples 'courting' on 14feb.... WTF i say!!!

The blogger formerly known as Sansmerci said...

renu

i am happy all of myreaders are jus like me ... even i din join any of this jus wnated to give soem info tho.. as i had mentioned in the blog itself.. yes thankfully the person in my life is the most respectful towards women... n m so damn proud of him :)

The blogger formerly known as Sansmerci said...

oorjas

thanks :D

blindy

ahh really eh.. ask m to send me a brown or yellow one.. i ve bought every other color for the weddin already ..how come they are being so nice?

Anonymous said...

I truly support wat ram sena did. these women by going to pubs are killing the culture of our country. I donno how women can even step into a pub. this is ridiculous. where is our country going? And just coz women have started stepping out all these places have couple entry and no stag entry and its killing me. Stop all this nonsense and go back to do what you were doing 15 years back.

The blogger formerly known as Sansmerci said...

don worry bout that ... u'll never need it after 10 days :)

Anonymous said...

Yeah I don need it after 10 days coz ram sena is going to take this to the next level. they will destroy all the pubs that allow woment entry and eventually all owners will be scared and restrict women from gettin in. Go ram sena!!!

Blindwreck said...

What a sicko!!!

Anonymous said...

Blinkwreck... so u r one of those pub goin culture killer eh?... watch out.... ram sena might visit u soon... u have picked up the right name... u r blind towards our rich culture...

The blogger formerly known as Sansmerci said...

my post has nithin to do with any sena except the MCPs sena